Japanese customs after a funeral
ใฏใใใฟใชใใใใใซใกใฏใใๅ ๆฐใงใใใใ๏ผ
hai, minasan konnichiwa. ogenki deshou ka?
Yes, ello everyone. How are you doing?
Transcript
ใฏใใใฟใชใใใใใซใกใฏใใๅ ๆฐใงใใใใ๏ผ
hai, minasan konnichiwa. ogenki deshou ka?
Yes, ello everyone. How are you doing?
ใฏใ(*ยดโ`)
hai (*ยดโ`)
Yes! (*ยดโ`)
ใใผใฃใจใไปๆฅใฏใ่ตทใใฆ30ๅไปฅๅ ใซใใใใญใฃในใใ้ฒ้ณใใฆใใใพใใ
eetto, kyou wa, okite 30 fun inai ni poddo kyasuto o rokuon shite orimasu.
Well, today, within 30 minutes of waking up I'm recording a podcast.
ๅฏ่ตทใใงใใใฏใใ
neoki desu. hai.
I just woke up. Yes.
ใฟใชใใใใชใใ่ตทใใฆใใใฃใฆใๆดปๅใงใใใฟใคใ๏ผ
minasan, nan ka okite sugutte, katsudou dekiru taipu?
Are you all the type of person who is active as soon as you wake up?
็งใใใฃใใใญใ่ตทใใฆใใๆดปๅใใกใใใใงใใใญใ
watashi, kekkou ne, okite sugu katsudou shichau n desu yo ne.
I tend to wake up and get active as soon as I get up.
ใชใใใใใ่ตทใใฆ10ๅใใใใงไปไบ้ๅงใใกใใใฟใใใชใฟใคใใชใใงใใใญใ
nan ka mou, okite 10 fun gurai de shigoto kaishi shichau mitai na taipu na n desu yo ne.
I woke up about 10 minutes ago. I'm the type of person who just starts working right away.
ใชใใใญใใใใใใๅบใใฎใฏใใชใใใใใผใใใฃใฆใชใใใฉใ
nan ka ne, beddo kara deru no wa, nan ka " uun " tte naru kedo,
I mean, getting out of bed is like, "Ugh."
ๆญฏใ็ฃจใใใใใใ็ฎใ่ฆใใๆใใใชใ
ha o migaitara, mou me ga sameru kanji ka na.
I guess if I brush my teeth I'll wake up.
ใใๆฐในใคใใๅ ฅใใใฟใใใชๆใใงใ
yaruki suitchi hairu, mitai na kanji de.
It's like my motivation switch is turned on.
ใฟใชใใใฉใใงใใใใ๏ผ
minasan dou deshou ka?
What do you all think?
ใฟใชใใใฏใ่ตทใใใใจใ
minasan wa, okita ato,
After you wake up,
30ๅใใใใกใใฃใจ่ณใฟใใๅใใชใใฟใใใชใฟใคใใใ
30 fun kurai chotto nou miso ga ugokanai mitai na taipu ka,
Are you the type who can't function properly for about 30 minutes?
ใใ่ตทใใฆใใใใใซๆดปๅใงใใใฟใคใใใใฉใฃใกใงใใใญ๏ผ
mou okite kara sugu ni katsudou dekiru taipu ka, dotchi desu ka ne?
Are you the type who can get active as soon as you wake up?
ใฏใใ
hai.
Yes.
็งใฏ่ตทใใฆใใใซใใฎใใใใญใฃในใใ้ฒ้ณใใฆใใใพใใ
watashi wa okite sugu ni kono poddo kyasuto o rokuon shite orimasu.
I record this podcast as soon as I wake up.
ใฏใใ
hai.
Yes.
ใใๆฐๆบใ ใงใูฉ( 'ฯ' )ู
yaruki manman desu ูฉ ( 'ฯ') ู
I'm full of motivation ูฉ( 'ฯ' )ู
ใจใใใใจใงใไปๆฅใฎใใใใฏใฏใงใใญใ
to iu koto de, kyou no topikku wa desu ne,
So, today's topic is,
ๅ จ็ถ้ใใใงใใใใฉใใ
zenzen chigau n desu keredo mo,
It's completely different,
ใใผใใพใๆฅๆฌใฎใ
ee, maa nihon no,
Well, in Japan,
ใใผใชใใฆ่จใใฎใๆญป่ ใฎไพ้คใฎ่ฉฑใงใใใญใ
ee nante iu no, shisha no kuyou no hanashi desu ka ne.
Well, how should I put it, it's a story about memorial services for the dead.
ใพใใใใใใใใจ1ใถๆใใชใใใใใงใ็ใซๅ ฅใใฎใงใ
maa sorosoro, ato 1 kagetsu mo nai gurai de obon ni hairu no de,
Well, Obon is just around the corner, so
ใพใใ็ใฏใกใใฃใจ็นๅฅใชๆๆใซใชใใฎใงใ
maa obon wa chotto tokubetsu na jiki ni naru no de,
Well, Obon is a bit of a special time,
ไปๆฅใฏใญใใพใๆฅๆฌใงใญใไบบใไบกใใชใฃใใใจใฃใฆใไฝใใใฎ๏ผใฃใฆใใ่ฉฑใงใใ
kyou wa ne, maa nihon de ne, hito ga nakunatta ato tte, nan suru no? tte iu hanashi desu.
Today, in Japan, after someone dies, What are you going to do? That's the question.
ๆๅคใซใใใใใฎใฃใฆ็ฅใใชใใใญใ
igai ni kou iu no tte shiranai yo ne.
Surprisingly, not many people know about these kinds of things.
ใใฃใฑๅฝใใจใซๅ จ็ถๆๅ้ใใใใใ
yappa kunigoto ni zenzen bunka chigau jan.
After all, each country has a completely different culture.
ๅฎๆใซใใฃใฆใๅ จ็ถ้ใใฎใงใ
shuukyou ni yotte mo zenzen chigau no de,
It all depends on the religion,
ๆฅๆฌใฎใญใใใใใๆญปๅพใฎ่ฉฑใ
nihon no ne, yoku aru shigo no hanashi.
A typical story about what happens after death in Japan.
ๅบๆฌ็ใซๆฅๆฌใงใฏไปๆใฎใใๆนใง
kihonteki ni nihon de wa bukkyou no yarikata de
Basically, in Japan, it's the Buddhist way.
ๆญป่ ใไพ้คใใใใจใใปใจใใฉใงใใ
shisha o kuyou suru koto ga hotondo desu.
Mostly it's to hold memorial services for the dead.
็งใใใใงใใญใ
watashi mo sou desu ne.
Me too.
ใปใจใใฉใฎไบบใใใใชใฎใงใ
hotondo no hito ga sou na no de,
Because most people are like that.
ไปๅใฏใใฎไปๆใฎใใๆนใ่ชฌๆใใใใจๆใใพใใ
konkai wa sono bukkyou no yarikata o setsumei shitai to omoimasu.
This time I would like to explain this Buddhist method.
ใใใไบกใใชใฃใใใใ ใใใใ่ฌๅผใจใใใใญ๏ผใ
" e, nakunattara, daitai osoushiki to kaja ne? "
"Well, when someone dies, isn't there usually a funeral or something?"
ใใๅขๅใใซ่กใใฟใใใชๆใใใใชใใงใใ๏ผใใใฃใฆๆใๆนใใใจๆใใใงใใใฉใ
" ohakamairi ni iku mitai na kanji ja nai desu ka? " tte omou kata iru to omou n desu kedo,
"Isn't it like going to visit a grave?" I think there are people who think that,
ๅฎใฏๅ จ็ถ้ใใใงใใใ
jitsu wa zenzen chigau n desu yo.
Actually, it's completely different.
ใใกใใใกใ่กไบใใใใพใใ
mechamecha gyouji ga arimasu.
There are a ton of events.
ใใกใใใกใ่กไบใใใใพใใ๏ผ2ๅ็ฎ๏ผ
mechamecha gyouji ga arimasu. ( 2 kaime)
There are a ton of events. (2nd time)
ใงใใพใใงใใญใๆฅๆฌใฏไปๆใชใใงใใใฉใ
de, mazu desu ne, nihon wa bukkyou na n desu kedo,
First of all, Japan is a Buddhist country.
ใพใ่ชฐใใไบกใใชใใพใใใจใ
mazu dare ka ga nakunarimashita to.
First, someone died.
๏ผใใฎ๏ผๅพใซใ่ฌๅผใๅงใพใใใใงใฏใชใใงใใ
( sono) go ni osoushiki ga hajimaru wake de wa nai desu.
The funeral doesn't start after that.
ใใฎๅใซใใพใใ้ๅคใจใใใใฎใใใใพใใ
sono mae ni, mazu otsuya to iu mono ga arimasu.
Before that, there is first something called a wake.
ใ้ๅคใฃใฆใใใฎใฏ็ฐกๅใซ่จใใจใ
otsuya tte iu no wa kantan ni yuu to,
Simply put, a wake is
ใ่ฌๅผใฎๅๅค็ฅญใฟใใใชๆใใ
osoushiki no zen'ya matsuri mitai na kanji.
It feels like the eve of a funeral.
ใ่ฌๅผใพใงใฏ่กใใชใใใ ใใฉใไบกใใชใฃใๆนใซ
osoushiki made wa ikanai n da kedo, nakunatta hou ni
I don't go to funerals, but I want to say thank you to the deceased.
้ขไฟ่ ใฎไบบใใกใไผใใซๆฅใใใจใใ
kankeisha no hitotachi ga ai ni ki tari to ka,
People involved came to see me,
ใๅ้ใจใๅๅใจใใ้ขไฟ่ ใฎไบบใใกใไผใใซๆฅใฆใ
otomodachi to ka douryou to ka, kankeisha no hitotachi ga ai ni kite,
My friends, colleagues, and other people related to me came to see me.
ใ็ตใใใใฆใใ้ฃฏใ้ฃในใใใใใฎใใใ้ๅคใงใใญใ
okyou o agete, gohan o tabe tari suru no ga, otsuya desu ne.
The wake involves chanting sutras and eating meals.
ใ ใใใใใฎๆฌกใฎๆฅใจใใซใ่ฌๅผใๅๅฅๅผใฃใฆ่จใใใงใใใฉใๆฌๅฝใฏใ
daitai sono tsugi no hi to ka ni osoushiki, kokubetsu shiki tte iu n desu kedo, hontou wa.
Usually the next day or so is the funeral. They call it a funeral, actually.
ๅๅฅๅผใๅงใพใใพใใ
kokubetsu shiki ga hajimarimasu.
The funeral begins.
ๅๅฅๅผใซๅๅใใๆนใฏใๅบๆฌ็ใซ
kokubetsu shiki ni sanretsu suru hou wa, kihonteki ni
Basically, those who attend the funeral
่ฆชๆใจใใใใชใไบกใใชใฃใๆนใจ่ท้ขใ่ฟใใฃใไบบใๅๅฅๅผใซๅๅ ใใพใใ
shinzoku to ka, kanari nakunatta hou to kyori ga chikakatta hito ga kokubetsu shiki ni sanka shimasu.
With relatives and people who have passed away People who were close to the deceased will attend the funeral.
่ฆชๅใจใใไผ็คพใฎไธๅธใ ใฃใไบบใจใใญใ
shin'yuu to ka, kaisha no joushi datta hito to ka ne.
A close friend or a former boss at work.
ๅๅฅๅผใฏใใ ใใใ1ๆฅใใใใใชใจๆใใญใ
kokubetsu shiki wa, daitai 1 nichi kakaru ka na to omou ne.
I think the funeral will probably take about a day. (It took a whole day from the funeral to the cremation and dinner!)
ใๅฏบใซ่กใฃใฆใใๅฏบใงใฟใใชๅบงใฃใฆใ็ใไธญใซใๅใใใใใฆใ
otera ni itte, otera de minna suwatte, mannaka ni obousan ga ite,
We went to a temple, and everyone sat down in the temple, and there was a monk in the middle.
ใๅใใใใ็ตใ่ชญใใงใใใใ
obousan ga okyou o yonde kureru.
A monk recites sutras.
ใงใใใฎใ็ตใชใใงใใใฉใ
de, kono okyou na n desu kedo,
So, this is the sutra,
ใ ใใใไปๆใ ใจใในใฟใคใซไธ็ทใชใใงใใใฉใ
daitai bukkyou da to, sutairu issho na n desu kedo,
In Buddhism, the style is generally the same.
ใกใใฃใจ้ใใพใใ
chotto chigaimasu.
That's a little different.
ใกใใฃใจ้ใใ
chotto chigau.
That's a little different.
ใใใฏใญใไปๆใฎๅฎๆดพใซใใฃใฆ้ใใพใใ
sore wa ne, bukkyou no shuuha ni yotte chigaimasu.
That depends on the Buddhist sect.
ใงใๆฅๆฌใฎไปๆใฎๅฎๆดพใฎๅฒๅใใกใใฃใจ่ชฟในใใใงใใใฉใ
de, nihon no bukkyou no shuuha no wariai o chotto shirabeta n desu kedo,
So I did a little research on the proportions of Buddhist sects in Japan,
ไธ็ชๅคใใฎใๆตๅ็ๅฎ48%ใ
ichiban ooi no ga joudo shinshuu 48 %.
The most common is Jodo Shinshu at 48%.
ใใใใใกใฎไธก่ฆชใๆฏๆนใ็ถๆนใใฏๅฟใใฆใใใฉใใใถใๆตๅ็ๅฎใใฉใฃใกใใใญใ
kore, uchi no ryoushin, hahakata ka chichikata ka wa wasureteru kedo, tabun joudo shinshuu. dotchi ka ga ne.
These are my parents, I forget if they were my mother's or my father's, Probably Jodo Shinshu. Either one.
ใๆใไฟก่ ๆฐใๅคใใฆใ็ถใใฆๆตๅๅฎ19%ใ
ga mottomo shinja suu ga ookute, tsuzuite joudoshuu 19 %.
has the largest number of followers, followed by Jodo Sect at 19%.
ใใใใฉใฃใกใใๆตๅๅฎใใใกใใชใใไธก่ฆชใญใๅฅใ ใชใฎใ
kore mo dotchi ka ga joudoshuu. uchi, nan ka ryoushin ne, betsubetsu na no.
This one is also of the Jodo sect. My parents are separate.
ๆฏใใใถใๆตๅ็ๅฎใงใ
haha ga tabun joudo shinshuu de,
My mother was probably a Jodo Shinshu Buddhist.
็ถๆนใๆตๅๅฎใ ใฃใใจๆใใใ ใใญใ
chichikata ga joudoshuu datta to omou n da yo ne.
I think my father's side was Jodo sect.
ใงใใใใ19%ใๆฌกใๆนๆดๅฎ12%ใๆฅ่ฎๅฎ10%ใ
de, sore ga 19 %. tsugi ga soutoushuu 12 %. nichirenshuu 10 %.
That's 19%. Next is the Soto sect at 12%. Nichiren sect at 10%.
ใจใใฃใฆใๅฎใใญใใกใใฃใจ้ใใใงใใใญใ
to itte, sou ga ne, chotto chigau n desu yo ne.
Having said that, the sect is a little different.
ใงใใใกใใใฉใใฎๅฎๆดพใซใใฃใฆใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใใกใใฃใจใญใใใฎใ่ฌๅผใจใใฎใใๆนใ้ใใใงใใใฉใ
de, mochiron doko no shuuha ni yotte tte iu no wa, chotto ne, sono osoushiki to ka no yarikata mo chigau n desu kedo,
Of course, it depends on the denomination. Well, the funerals and such are conducted differently,
ใใฃใจๅคงใใ้ใใฎใฏใใใใญใ
etto ookiku chigau no wa, yoku ne,
Well, the big difference is, well,
ๅ็ก้ฟๅผฅ้ไปใฃใฆ่ใใใใจใใใจๆใใใงใใใญใ
namuamidabutsu tte kiita koto aru to omou n desu yo ne.
I'm sure you've heard of Namu Amida Butsu.
ๅ็ก้ฟๅผฅ้ไปใๅ็ก้ฟๅผฅ้ไปใฃใฆใใใญใ
namuamidabutsu, namuamidabutsu tte iu ne.
Namu Amida Butsu, Namu Amida Butsu.
ไพใใฐใ้ฌผๆป ใฎๅใฎใญใๆฒ้ณดๅถผ่กๅฅใใใๆฑใฎไธ็ชๅผทใไบบใใญใ
tatoeba, oni metsu no ha no ne, himei sho gyou meisan, hashira no ichiban tsuyoi hito ga ne,
For example, in Demon Slayer, Gyomei Himejima is the strongest of the pillars.
ใใใๅ็ก้ฟๅผฅ้ไปใใฟใใใชใใจ่จใฃใฆใพใใใฉใ
yoku " namuamidabutsu " mitai na koto ittemasu kedo,
People often say things like "Namu Amida Butsu"
ใใใฏใญใไปๆใฎใ็ตใงใใญใ
are wa ne, bukkyou no okyou desu ne.
That is a Buddhist sutra.
ใงใใใฎๅ็ก้ฟๅผฅ้ไปใฏใๅฎใฏๆตๅ็ๅฎใจใๆตๅๅฎใฎใ็ตใชใใงใใใ
de, ano namuamidabutsu wa, jitsu wa joudo shinshuu to ka joudoshuu no okyou na n desu yo.
So, that Namu Amida Butsu, Actually, it is a sutra from the Jodo Shinshu or Jodo sect.
ใงใๆฅ่ฎๅฎใฃใฆใใใใพใๅฅใฎๅฎๆดพใซใชใใจใ
de, nichirenshuu tte iu, mata betsu no shuuha ni naru to,
And then there's another sect called Nichiren Buddhism,
ๅ็กๅฆๆณ่ฎ่ฏ็ตใงใใพใๅฅใฎใ็ตใซใชใใพใใ
namu myouhou renge kyou de, mata betsu no okyou ni narimasu.
Namu Myoho Renge Kyo, which is another sutra.
็งใ่ชฐใใฎใญใ
watashi, dare ka no ne,
I'm somebody's,
ใใฃใ...็ตๅฉๅผใใใชใใใใใพใใใ
kekko... kekkonshiki ja nai, suimasen.
It's not quite a wedding, sorry.
ใ่ฌๅผใซ่กใฃใใจใใซใญใ
osoushiki ni itta toki ni ne,
When I went to the funeral,
ๅ็กๅฆๆณ่ฎ่ฏ็ตใ่ใใใใ ใใญใ
namu myouhou renge kyou o kiita n da yo ne.
I heard Namu Myoho Renge Kyo.
ใใกใฎๅฎถๆใฏๅ จๅกๅ็ก้ฟๅผฅ้ไปใชใใ ใใฉใ
uchi no kazoku wa zen'in namuamidabutsu na n da kedo.
Everyone in my family chants Namu Amida Butsu.
ใฃใฆใใ้ใใใใฃใใใใใฎใงใ
tte iu chigai ga attari suru no de.
There are differences like this.
ใใใชๆใใ
sonna kanji.
That's about it.
ใงใใใใฆใใใใฆใใใผใ
de, soshite, soshite, ee,
And, and, uh,
ใใฎๅๅฅๅผใ็ตใใฃใใใจใซใ็ซ่ฌๅ ดใซ่กใใพใใ
sono kokubetsu shiki ga owatta ato ni, kasoujou ni ikimasu.
After the funeral service is over, we go to the crematorium.
็ซ่ฌๅ ดใง็ซ่ฌใใใพใใ
kasoujou de kasou o shimasu.
The body will be cremated at the crematorium.
ๆฅๆฌใฎไปๆใ ใจใๅบๆฌ็ใซ็ซ่ฌใงใใญใ
nihon no bukkyou da to, kihonteki ni kasou desu ne.
In Japanese Buddhism, cremation is the norm.
ใงใ็ซ่ฌใ็ตใใฃใฆ้ชจใ ใใซใชใฃใ็ถๆ ใซใชใใจใ
de, kasou ga owatte hone dake ni natta joutai ni naru to,
And once the cremation is over and all that remains are the bones,
ใใฎ้ชจใใญใใ็ฎธใง...ใ
sono hone o ne, ohashi de....
Pick up that bone with chopsticks...
ใ็ฎธใฃใฆใใใจใใกใใฃใจใชใใ้ฃในใใ็ฎธใๆณๅใใใจๆใใใงใใใฉใ้ใใพใใญใ
ohashi tte iu to, chotto nanka taberu ohashi o souzou suru to omou n desu kedo, chigaimasu ne.
Speaking of chopsticks, You might imagine chopsticks for eating, but that's not it.
ใใฃใจใกใใใจใใใใชใใ็นๅฅใชๅฐ็จใฎใญใ
motto chanto shita, nan ka tokubetsu na sen'you no ne,
Something more proper, something special,
ใ็ฎธใง้ชจใๆพใฃใฆใ้ชจๅฃบใซๅ ฅใใพใใ
ohashi de hone o hirotte, kotsutsubo ni iremasu.
Pick up the bones with chopsticks and place them in the urn.
็งใ็ต้จใใใพใใญใใใใใกใใใใฐใใกใใใจใใงใ
watashi mo keiken arimasu ne. ojiichan obaachan to ka de.
I've had that experience too. With my grandparents.
้ชจๅฃบใๆใฃใฆใ้ฃไบไผๅ ดใซ่กใฃใฆใใ้ฃไบใใใใฃใฆใใใฎใใ
kotsutsubo o motte oshokuji kaijou ni itte, oshokuji o suru tte iu no ga,
The idea of taking the urn to the dining hall and having a meal,
ใ ใใใใฎใ่ฌๅผใฎๆตใใซใชใใพใใ
daitai no osoushiki no nagare ni narimasu.
This is roughly how a funeral takes place.
็งใใญใใใกใใใ่ฌๅผใฏ่ชๅใฎ็ฅ็ถๆฏใจใใ่ฆชๆใจใใงไธปใซ็ต้จใใใใจใใใใใงใใใฉใ
watashi mo ne, mochiron osoushiki wa jibun no sofubo to ka, shinseki to ka de omoni keiken shita koto ga aru n desu kedo,
Of course, I also attended funerals for my grandparents, I've mainly experienced this with relatives,
ใใใใใพใใใใ่ชๅใฎไธก่ฆชใไบกใใชใฃใๅ ดๅใ
koresa, maa, moshi jibun no ryoushin ga nakunatta baai,
Well, if your parents die,
ใใธใง่ชๅใฉใใใใฐใใใใ ใใใฃใฆใๆฌๅฝใซๆใฃใฆใไปๅใกใใฃใจ่ชฟในใใใใฆใใใ ใใญใ
maji de jibun dou sureba ii n darou tte, hontou ni omotte, konkai chotto shirabe tari shiteru n da yo ne.
I was really wondering what I should do. I've been doing a bit of research this time.
ใชใใใ่ชๅใไฝใฎๅฎๆดพใ ใฃใฆใใใฎใๅ จใใใใใชใใ
nan ka, jibun ga nan no shuuha da tte iu no ga mattaku wakaranai.
I have no idea what sect I belong to.
ใใถใๅคใใฎๆฅๆฌไบบใฎไบบใฏใใใ ใจๆใใใ่ชๅใฎๅฎถใใฉใใฎไปๆใฎๅฎๆดพใชใฎใใจใใใใธใงใใใใชใใ
tabun ooku no nihonnin no hito wa sou da to omou. jibun no ie ga doko no bukkyou no shuuha na no ka to ka, maji de wakannai.
I think most Japanese people probably feel the same way. I honestly don't know what Buddhist sect my family belongs to.
ใงใ่ชฐใๅผในใฐใใใฎใใใ่ฌๅผใซใ
de, dare o yobeba ii no ka. osoushiki ni.
So who should we invite to the funeral?
่ชฐใซๅฃฐใใใใฆใ
dare ni koe o kakete,
Who should I call?
่ชฐใๅๅฅๅผใซๅผใถใฎใใจใใใชใใใใชใใใใใชใใ
dare o kokubetsu shiki ni yobu no ka to ka, nan ka kanari wakaranai.
I have no idea who to invite to the funeral, or anything like that.
ใฉใใฎใๅฏบใซ้ ผใใฎใใจใใใใธใงใใใใชใใใงใ
doko no otera ni tanomu no ka to ka, maji de wakaranai n de,
I really don't know which temple to ask for help,
ไปใกใใฃใจใญใ็งใ30ใงใไธก่ฆชใ70่ฟใใใงใ
ima chotto ne, watashi mo 30 de, ryoushin mo 70 chikai n de,
I'm 30 now, and my parents are almost 70.
ใใใใใฎใใญใไธก่ฆชใซ่ใใจใใใปใใใใใชใจใ
kou iu no o ne, ryoushin ni kiitoita hou ga ii na to.
I think it's best to ask your parents about this sort of thing.
ไปใกใใฃใจ่ชฟในใฆๆใใพใใใ
ima chotto shirabete omoimashita.
I just looked into it and thought about it.
ใใชใใญใๅฎถๆใๅฟใใใชใใใงใใญใใ่ฌๅผใใใใใฏใฉใฎๅฝใใใใ ใจๆใใใ ใใฉใ
kanari ne, kazoku ga isogashiku naru n desu ne. osoushiki. kore wa dono kuni mo sou da to omou n da kedo.
Well, families get pretty busy with funerals. I think this is true in every country.
ใ่ฌๅผใฏใใใชๆใใงใใ
osoushiki wa konna kanji desu.
This is what a funeral looks like.
ใใ ใใใใ ใใงใฏ็ตใใใพใใใ
tada, kore dake de wa owarimasen.
But that's not the end of it.
ๅ จ็ถ็ตใใใพใใใใ
zenzen owarimasen yo.
It's not over at all.
ใพใ ใพใ ็ถใใพใใ
madamada tsuzukimasu.
There's more.
ๅๅไนๆฅใจใใ่กไบใใใใพใใ
yonjuu kyuu nichi to iu gyouji ga arimasu.
There is an event called the 49th day.
ๅๅไนๆฅใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใใ49ๆฅใใฃใฆๆธใใฆใใใใงใใใฉใ
yonjuu kokonoka tte iu no wa, " 49 ka " tte kaite aru n desu kedo,
It says "49 days"
ไบกใใชใฃใๆฅใใ49ๆฅๅพใซใใใไธๅบฆๆณไบใใใใพใใ
nakunatta hi kara 49 kago ni, mou ichi do houji o yarimasu.
Another memorial service will be held 49 days after the date of death.
ๆณไบใ
houji.
Memorial service.
ๆณไบใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใใๅใใใๅผใใงใ
houji tte iu no wa, obousan o yonde,
A memorial service is when you call in a monk,
ใ็ตใๅฑใใฆใใใฃใฆใ
okyou o tonaete moratte,
I had them chant sutras,
ใฟใใชใงใ้ฃไบไผใใใ
minna de oshokuji kai suru.
We all have a dinner party.
ใใฎไธ้ฃใฎใคใใณใใๆณไบใจ่จใใใงใใใฉใ
kono ichiren no ibento ga houji to iu n desu kedo.
This series of events is called a memorial service.
ใชใใง49ๆฅใไบกใใชใฃใใใจใซ49ๆฅใซใใใใใใใจใใใใใจใใใจใ
nan de 49 ka, nakunatta ato ni 49 ka ni, sou iu koto o suru ka to iu to,
Why 49 days? 49 days after death. If I were to do that,
ไปๆใฎไธญใงใฏใ49ๆฅๅพใซๆไปใใใฃใฆ่จใใใฆใใใงใใใญใ
bukkyou no naka de wa, 49 kago ni joubutsu suru tte iwareteru n desu yo ne.
In Buddhism, it is said that after 49 days, you will attain buddhahood.
ๆญปใใ ใใจใฎใๆฌกใฎไบบ็ใๆฌกใฎ่กใๅ ใๆฑบใพใใใฟใใใชใใจใงใใญใ
shin da ato no, tsugi no jinsei, tsugi no ikisaki ga kimaru, mitai na koto desu ne.
After death, the next life, It's like deciding your next destination.
ๅฐ็ใซ่กใใจใใๆฅตๆฅฝๆตๅใซ่กใใจใใ
jigoku ni iku to ka, gokuraku joudo ni iku to ka,
Going to hell or going to paradise,
ใใใใใใจใๆฑบใพใใฎใ49ๆฅใชใใงใใใญใ
sou iu koto ga kimaru no ga 49 ka na n desu yo ne.
That kind of thing is decided on the 49th day.
ใ ใใใใใงใใใใพใงใซใ็งใใกใฏไบกใใชใฃใๆนใใฉใใ่ฏใๆนๅใซ่กใใพใใใใซใจใใใใ
da kara soko de, sore made ni, watashitachi wa nakunatta hou ga dou ka yoi houkou ni ikemasu you ni to iu ka,
So, by then, we would be better off dead. I hope things go in a good direction.
ๆฅตๆฅฝๆตๅใซใไธ็ชใใใใงใใใฉใ่กใใพใใใใซใฃใฆใใใฎใ็ฅใฃใฆใ
gokuraku joudo ni, ichiban ii n desu kedo, ikemasu you ni tte iu no o inotte,
It's the best place to be in paradise, I prayed that I could go.
ใใใ49ๆฅๅพใ
sore ga 49 kago.
That was 49 days later.
ใใใฏๅบๆฌ็ใซ่ฆชๆใ ใใงใใญใ
koko wa kihonteki ni shinzoku dake desu ne.
Basically, it's just family here.
่ฆชๆใ ใๅผใใงใ
shinzoku dake yonde,
Only relatives were invited.
ใพใใๅใใใๅผใใงใ
mata obousan o yonde,
Call the monk again,
ใใใงๅใใฆใๅขใๅบใฆใใพใใ
koko de hajimete ohaka ga dete kimasu.
This is where the grave appears for the first time.
ใๅขใฎๆบๅใๅฟ ่ฆใซใชใใใงใใใญใ
ohaka no junbi ga hitsuyou ni naru n desu yo ne.
You'll need to prepare the grave.
49ๆฅๅพใซใ
49 kago ni.
49 days later.
ใงใใ่ฌๅผใฎใจใใซ็ซ่ฌใใใ้ชจใงใใญใใ้ชจใ
de, osoushiki no toki ni kasou shita ohone desu ne. ohone.
So, these are the bones that were cremated at the funeral. Bones.
ใ้ชจใใๅขใซๅ ฅใใใฎใ49ๆฅใฎใจใใ
ohone o ohaka ni ireru no ga 49 ka no toki.
The bones are placed in the grave on the 49th day.
ใ ใใใใใใๅคงๅใงใใญใใใใฎใ่ฌๅผใจใๅๅไนๆฅใฃใฆ่จใใใงใใใฉใ
da kara, sugoku taisetsu desu ne. kono osoushiki to, yonjuu kokonoka tte iu n desu kedo,
So that's why it's so important. This funeral and the 49th day are called,
ใใฎๅๅไนๆฅใฏใใกใใใกใๅคงๅใงใใ
kono yonjuu kyuu nichi wa mechamecha taisetsu desu.
These 49 days are extremely important.
ใใ ใใพใ ใพใ ็ถใใพใใ
tada, madamada tsuzukimasu.
But there's more to come.
ใพใ ใพใ ใพใ ใพใ ็ถใใพใใ
madamada madamada tsuzukimasu.
There's more and more to come.
ๆฌกใฏๅ็ใ
tsugi wa hatsubon.
Next is the first Bon festival.
ๅ็ใงใใใ็ใงใใญใใใใใใจใฆใๅคงๅใช่กไบใซใชใใพใใญใ
hatsubon desu. obon desu ne. kore mo totemo taisetsu na gyouji ni narimasu ne.
It's the first Bon festival. It's Bon Festival. This will also be a very important event.
ๅบๆฌ็ใซใ็ใฏ8ๆใฎ13ใใ16ใใใใฎๆๆใชใใงใใใฉใ
kihonteki ni obon wa 8 gatsu no 13 kara 16 gurai no jiki na n desu kedo.
Basically, Obon takes place from around August 13th to 16th.
ใใใๅ ดๆใซใใฃใฆ้ใใพใใๆฑไบฌใฏใใฎใใใใ
kore, basho ni yotte chigaimasu. toukyou wa sono gurai.
This varies by location. That's about it in Tokyo.
ใงใไบกใใชใฃใไบบใๅใใฆใ็ใ่ฟใใๆฅใ
de, nakunatta hito ga hajimete obon o mukaeru hi.
This is the first Obon festival for a deceased person.
ใใใฏใใใๅคงๅใงใใ็นใซๅคงไบใ
kore wa sugoku taisetsu desu. tokuni daiji.
This is very important. It's very important.
ใพใใๅใใใๅฎถใซๅผใใ ใใจใใ
mata obousan o ie ni yon dari to ka,
Or maybe they'd invite a Buddhist priest to their house,
ใๅฏบใซ่กใฃใฆใใๅใใใซใ็ตใใใใฆใใใฃใใใจใใใฆใใพใๆณไบใใใใพใใ
otera ni itte, obousan ni okyou o agete morattari to ka shite, mata houji o yarimasu.
I went to a temple and had a monk chant a sutra for me. I will also hold a memorial service.
ใกใฃใกใใๆณไบใฃใฆๆใใใชใใใใใใใใ
chitchai houji tte kanji ka na, moshi ka shitara.
Maybe it'll feel like a little memorial service.
ใงใใๅขๅใใใใใจใใๅฎถใซไปๅฃใใใไบบใฏๆ็ฏใฎ้ฃพใไปใใใใใจใใ
de, ohakamairi shi tari to ka, ie ni butsudan ga aru hito wa chouchin no kazaritsuke shi tari to ka.
So, I visited the graves, People who have a Buddhist altar at home may decorate it with lanterns.
็ฐ่ใ ใจใญใใใใ่ฑช่ฏใช้ฃพใใไฝใฃใใใใไบบใใพใใญใ
inaka da to ne, sugoi gouka na kazari o tsukuttari suru hito imasu ne.
In the countryside, there are people who make really extravagant decorations.
ใใกใใๆฑไบฌใฎๅฎๅฎถใฏๅฎถใใใใชใซๅคงใใใชใใฎใงใ
uchi mo, toukyou no jikka wa ie ga sonna ni ookiku nai no de,
My family's house in Tokyo isn't that big either.
ไปๅฃใใกใใฃใจใกใฃใกใใใ
butsudan mo chotto chitchame.
The Buddhist altar is also a little small.
ใงใใใใชใซๅฎถใซใๅใใใๅผใใ ใใจใใใใซใใๅฏบใซ่กใใพใใญใ
de, sonna ni ie ni obousan o yon dari to ka sezu ni, otera ni ikimasu ne.
So, I didn't call a monk to my house that often. I'm going to the temple.
ใงใใชใใใ็งใฎๅคงๅใฎไนๅทใฎๆนใฎๆฏใฎๅฎๅฎถใฏใ
de mo nan ka, watashi no ooita no kyuushuu no hou no haha no jikka wa,
But, my mother's family home in Kyushu,
ใใฃใใ็ฐ่ใชใฎใงใๅคงใใชไปๅฃใๅฎถใซใใใพใใ
kekkou inaka na no de, ookina butsudan ga ie ni arimasu.
We live in a fairly rural area, so we have a large Buddhist altar in our house.
ใใฎไปๅฃใฎๅใซใๅใใใๅผใใงใใ็ตใใใใฆใใใฃใฆใพใใใ
sono butsudan no mae ni obousan o yonde, okyou o agete morattemashita.
We called a monk to stand in front of the altar and have him recite sutras.
ใใใง็นๅฅใชๆ็ฏใจใใฎ้ฃพใใใใใใงใใใ
koko de tokubetsu na chouchin to ka no kazari o suru n desu yo.
This is where they put up special lanterns and other decorations.
ใใใๅบใฎๅใซใใๆ็ฏใจใใใ็ฅญใใง่ฆใๆ็ฏใจใฏๅ จ็ถ้ใใพใใ
yoku omise no mae ni aru chouchin to ka, omatsuri de miru chouchin to wa zenzen chigaimasu.
The lanterns you often see in front of shops, They are completely different from the lanterns you see at festivals.
ๅ จ็ถ้ใใ่ฒใ็ดซใจใๆฐด่ฒใ็ฝใงใใใใ็ถบ้บใงใใ
zenzen chigau. iro mo murasaki to ka mizuiro, shiro de, sugoku kirei desu.
It's completely different. The colors are purple, light blue, and white, and they're really beautiful.
ใกใใฃใจใฟใใชใฐใฐใฃใฆใฟใฆใใ ใใใๅ็ใฎๆ็ฏ้ฃพใใ
chotto minna gugutte mite kudasai. hatsubon no chouchin kazari.
Please try googling it. Paper lantern decorations for the first Bon festival.
ใใใ็ถบ้บใงใ็งใฏใชใใใใใใใใ่ฆใใจไธๆ่ญฐใชๆฐๆใกใซใชใใพใใญใ
sugoku kirei de, watashi wa nan ka kou, are o miru to fushigi na kimochi ni narimasu ne.
It was so beautiful, and I was like, It's a strange feeling when you see that.
ใใใๅ็ใงใใญใ
kore ga hatsubon desu ne.
This is the first Bon festival.
ใพใ ใพใ ็ถใใพใใ
madamada tsuzukimasu.
There's more.
ใพใ ใพใ ็ถใใใงใใ
madamada tsuzuku n desu.
It's still going on.
ๆฅๆฌใฎใใฎๆญป่ ใฎไพ้คใฏใใใ้ทใใงใใ
nihon no kono shisha no kuyou wa sugoku nagai desu.
In Japan, memorial services for the dead are very long.
ๆฌกใฏไธๅจๅฟใไบกใใชใฃใฆไธๅจๅฟใ1ๅนดใงใใญใ
tsugi wa ichi shuuki. nakunatte ichi shuuki, 1 nen desu ne.
Next is the first anniversary of his death. It's been one year since he passed away.
ใงใใพใๆณไบใใใพใใ
de, mata houji o shimasu.
And then we have another memorial service.
ใๅใใใซใ็ตใ่ชญใใงใใใฃใฆใ่ฆชๆใใกใจ้ใพใฃใฆใใ้ฃไบไผใฟใใใชใ
obousan ni okyou o yonde moratte, shinsekitachi to atsumatte, oshokuji kai mitai na.
We had a Buddhist monk read the sutra, and we gathered with our relatives. Like a dinner party.
ใงใใๅขๅใใใฆใจใใใใใชๆใใใใใๆณไบใงใใญใ
de, ohakamairi shite to ka. sonna kanji. sore ga houji desu ne.
And then you visit the grave, or something like that. That's a memorial service.
1ๅนดใฎไธๅจๅฟใ
1 nen no ichi shuuki.
One year anniversary.
ใใจ3ๅนดใฎ3ๅๅฟใ7ๅนดใฎ7ๅๅฟใ
ato 3 nen no 3 kaiki, 7 nen no 7 kaiki,
3 years left until the 3rd anniversary, 7 years left until the 7th anniversary,
ใใจ13ๅๅฟใ17ๅๅฟใ21...21๏ผใ23ใ ใฃใใช๏ผ ใฉใใฉใ็ถใใฆใใใพใใ
ato 13 kaiki, 17 kaiki, 21... 21? 23 da kke na? dondon tsuzuite ikimasu.
Next are the 13th, 17th, 21st... 21st? Is it 23? It just keeps going.
23ใ27ใ33ใงใ50ๅๅฟใใใใฏในใใชใ
23, 27, 33 de, 50 kaiki ga makkusu ka na.
23, 27, 33, and then the 50th anniversary would be the maximum.
ไบกใใชใฃใๅฝๆฅใใ50ๅนดใงใใญ
nakunatta meinichi kara 50 nen desu ne
It's been 50 years since the day he died.
ใใ ใไธ่ฌใฎๅฎถๅบญใงใฏใใฎ50ๅๅฟใฏใใชใใจๆใใพใใญใ
tada, ippan no katei de wa kono 50 kaiki wa shinai to omoimasu ne.
However, I don't think most families hold this 50th anniversary ceremony.
ใใใใซใ
sasuga ni.
As expected.
ใจใใใฎใใใใฃใฑใ50ๅนดใ
to iu no mo, yappari 50 nen.
Because, after all, it's 50 years.
ไบกใใชใฃใๆนใฎๅฝๆฅใใ50ๅนด็ตใฃใฆใใใจใ
nakunatta hou no meinichi kara 50 nen tatte iru to,
When 50 years have passed since the death of a person,
ใใฎไบกใใชใฃใๆนใ่ฆใใฆใใไบบใใใชใใใงใใใญใใไบกใใชใฃใฆใใพใฃใใใใฆใ
sono nakunatta hou o oboete iru hito mo inai n desu yo ne. nakunatte shimattari shite.
There is no one who remembers the person who died. Or maybe they pass away.
ใงใใใฃใฑใใใฎๆณไบใใใใฃใฆใชใใจใใ้ใใใใใพใใใ
de, yappari kono houji o yaru tte naru to, okane mo kakarimasu shi,
So, if we were to hold this memorial service, it would cost money,
ไบบใๅผใฐใชใใใใใชใใใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใใกใใฃใจใณในใใใใใใใใงใใใญใ
hito mo yobanakya ikenai shi tte iu no wa, chotto kosuto ga kakaru wake desu yo ne.
I have to invite people, It does cost a bit.
ใ ใใใใใฃใกใใใถใๅคง็ฉใฎๆๅไบบใจใใ
da kara, metcha tabun oomono no yuumeinin to ka,
So, maybe some really big celebrities,
ใใใ็ฑ็ทๆญฃใใๅฎถๅบญใจใใ ใฃใใใ
sugoi yuisho masashiki katei to ka dattara,
If you come from a very respectable family,
ใใใใใใใใใใใกใใใใฐใใกใใใฎ50ๅๅฟใใใใใใใใชใใงใใใฉใ
moshi ka shitara, ojiichan obaachan no 50 kaiki o suru ka mo shirenai desu kedo,
Maybe your grandparents There may be a 50th anniversary celebration.
ใใใพใ่ใใใใจใชใใญใ
anmari kiita koto nai ne.
I haven't heard much about it.
ๅฎใฏใงใใญใใใกใฎใใฐใใกใใใฎ17ๅๅฟใ
jitsu wa desu ne, uchi no obaachan no 17 kaiki.
Actually, it's the 17th anniversary of my grandmother's death.
ไบกใใชใฃใฆ17ๅนดใฎ17ๅๅฟใใไปๅนดใฎ็งใซ่กใใใใฃใฆใใใฎใใใใกใฎ็ถใใๅ ้ฑใกใใใฉ้ฃ็ตกใใใใพใใฆใ
nakunatte 17 nen no 17 kaiki ga, kotoshi no aki ni okonawareru tte iu no ga, uchi no chichi kara senshuu choudo renraku ga arimashite.
My father just contacted me last week to tell me that the 17th anniversary of his death will be held this fall.
ใงใใใฏใใใฏใใคๆฅๆฌใซๅธฐใใใ ใใจใใ้ฃ็ตกใงใ
de, " haruka wa itsu nihon ni kaeru n da " to iu renraku de.
Then I got a message asking, "When is Haruka coming back to Japan?"
ใใถใ11ๆใใใใ
tabun 11 gatsu gurai.
Probably around November.
ใใใ10ๆใใใใซใใใใใใใใใฐใใกใใใฎ17ๅๅฟใฎๆณไบใใใใใใใใชใใใใ
iya, 10 gatsu gurai ni, moshi ka shitara obaachan no 17 kaiki no houji o yaru ka mo shirenai kara,
No, maybe around October. I might hold a memorial service for my grandmother's 17th anniversary.
ๅธฐใฃใฆใใฆใใใชใใใจใใ้ฃ็ตกใใใใพใใใ
kaette kite kurenai ka to iu renraku ga arimashita.
I was contacted and asked if I could come back.
ใพใ ๆฅ็จๆฑบใพใฃใฆใชใใใงใใใฉใ
mada nittei kimattenai n desu kedo.
The date hasn't been decided yet.
ใใถใใใฎ17ๅๅฟใๆๅพใซใชใใใใ
tabun kono 17 kaiki ga saigo ni naru kara,
This 17th anniversary will probably be the last one,
่ฆชๆใใฟใใช้ใพใใฎใใใใๆๅพใซใชใใจๆใใใใใงใใใ ใๆฅใฆใปใใใใฟใใใช้ฃ็ตกใงใใใญใ
shinseki ga minna atsumaru no mo kore ga saigo ni naru to omou kara, dekiru dake kite hoshii, mitai na renraku deshita ne.
I think this will be the last time all my relatives will get together, The message was something like, "I would like you to come if possible."
ใพใใใใญใ
maa sou ne.
Well, that's true.
ใใฃใฑใใใฐใใกใใใฎๅจใใฎไบบใใกใฏใใใปใจใใฉไบกใใชใฃใฆใใใใ
yappa, obaachan no mawari no hitotachi wa mou hotondo nakunatte iru shi,
After all, the people around my grandmother He's almost dead now,
่ฆชๆใใใ70ใ80ใชใใงใ
shinseki mo mou 70, 80 na n de,
My relatives are in their 70s and 80s now.
ใใใๆๅพใชใฎใใชใใจใใๆใใงใใ
kore ga saigo na no ka na, to iu kanji desu.
I feel like this might be the end.
ใงใใญใใใ่ใใใจใใใ้ทใใใญใ
de mo ne, kou kangaeru to sugoku nagai yo ne.
But when you think about it, it seems really long.
ใ่ฌๅผใใๅงใพใฃใฆใๅๅไนๆฅใใใฃใฆใ
osoushiki kara hajimatte, yonjuu kyuu nichi ga atte,
It starts with the funeral, then the 49th day,
ๅ็ใใใฃใฆใไธๅจๅฟใใใฃใฆใ3ใ7ใ13ใ17ใจใใฃใฆใใฆใ
hatsubon ga atte, ichi shuuki ga atte, 3, 7, 13, 17 to yatte kite.
There was the first Bon festival, then the first anniversary, then the 3rd, 7th, 13th, and 17th.
ใใฃใใใญใ้ทใใงใใญใ
kekkou ne, nagai desu ne.
It's quite long.
ๆฅๆฌใฎไบกใใชใฃใๆนใธใฎไพ้คใ
nihon no nakunatta hou e no kuyou.
Memorial service for the deceased in Japan.
ใงใ็งใฏใใฎๆๅใใใฃใใๅฅฝใใงใๅคงๅคใงใใใฉใ
de mo watashi wa kono bunka, kekkou suki de. taihen desu kedo.
But I really like this culture. It's tough, though.
ใใถใ่ฆชใฏใใคใๅคงๅคใใใชใฎใใ
tabun oya wa itsu mo taihen sou na no yo.
Maybe their parents always seem to have a hard time.
ใใกใฎใใใใกใใใจใใใฐใใกใใใฎ...ใใ่ชฐใๅผใถใจใใใฉใใใใใใคใใใจใใ
uchi no ojiichan to ka obaachan no.... dare o yobu to ka, dou suru, itsu yaru to ka,
My grandpa and grandma... Who to invite, what to do, when to do it,
ใ้ใฎๆบๅใใชใใใใใชใใจใใใใใใใญใ
okane no junbi shinakya ikenai to ka, iroiro ne,
I have to prepare money and all that stuff.
่ชฟๆดใใชใใใใใชใใฎใงใใใใๆ ใใ ใใใชใใใงใใใใฉใใ
chousei shinakya ikenai no de, sugoku awatadashiku naru n desu keredo mo,
I have to adjust it, It gets very hectic,
ๅไบบ็ใซใฏใใใฃใฑใใใใใจใใใใชใใจ่ฆชๆใฃใฆใใใใ้ใพใใชใใฃใใใใใใ
kojinteki ni wa, yappa sou iu toki ja nai to shinseki tte takusan atsumaranakattari suru shi,
Personally, I think it has to be at a time like that. Relatives don't always gather together in large numbers,
ใๅๅฟใฃใฆใใใจใใใงใๆณไบใ่กใใใจใงใใใใใกใใใจใใฐใใกใใใฎใใจใใฟใใชๆใๅบใใใใจใ
~ kaiki tte iu tokoro de, houji o okonau koto de, ojii chanto obaachan no koto o minna omoidashi tari to ka
~By holding a memorial service on the anniversary of someone's death, We all remember our grandparents.
ๆนใใฆๆ่ฌใฎๆฐๆใกใไผใใใใจใใ
aratamete kansha no kimochi o tsutae tari to ka.
Or maybe expressing your gratitude once again.
ๅฟใใชใใใใซใ
wasurenai tame ni mo
So that I won't forget
ใจใฆใใใ่กไบใ ใชใจใๅไบบ็ใซใฏๆใใพใใญใ
totemo ii gyouji da na to, kojinteki ni wa omoimasu ne.
Personally, I think it's a great event.
ใฏใใใใใใงใใใงใใใใใ
hai, ikaga deshita deshou ka.
Okay, what do you think?
ๆฅๆฌใฎใญใใใฎๆญปๅพใฎๆๅใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใใใชใใใชใในใฑใธใฅใผใซใใใฃใใๆฑบใพใฃใฆใใฆใ
nihon no ne, kono shigo no bunka tte iu no wa, kanari kanari sukejuuru ga shikkari kimatte ite.
In Japan, this culture of afterlife is, The schedule is pretty much set.
ใฟใชใใใฎๅฝใงใฏใฉใใงใใใญ๏ผ
minasan no kuni de wa dou desu ka ne?
How is it in your country?
ๅ จ็ถ้ใใใญใ
zenzen chigau yo ne.
It's completely different.
ใใถใใๅใไปๆใฎๅฝใงใๅ จ็ถ้ใใจใใใใใจๆใใ
tabun, onaji bukkyou no kuni de mo zenzen chigau tokoro aru to omou.
I think that even within the same Buddhist country, there are probably places that are completely different.
ใพใใญใใงใไปใฏใใถใใใใฃใจใใฃใจ็ฐก็ด ๅใใใฆใใจๆใใพใใญใ
maa ne, de mo ima wa tabun, motto motto kansoka sareteru to omoimasu ne.
Well, maybe now, I think it's been simplified a lot more.
ใ่ฌๅผใฏใใใจๆใใใฉใ49ๆฅใฏใใใจๆใใญใ
osoushiki wa suru to omou kedo. 49 ka wa suru to omou ne.
I think there will be a funeral. I think there will be a 49th day.
ใใฃใฑใใๅขใซใ้ชจใๅใใใใฟใใใช้จๅใฏใใฃใใใใใชใใใใใชใใใฉใ
yappari ohaka ni ohone o osameru, mitai na bubun wa shikkari yaranakya ikenai kedo,
I guess I'll put the bones in the grave. I have to do things like that properly,
ไพใใฐใๅ็ใจใไฝๅๅฟใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใใใฃใใ็ฐก็ด ๅใใใฆใใใใใใชใใฃใฆใใไบบใใญใไปใฎๆไปฃใใใจๆใใใงใใใญใ
tatoeba, hatsubon to ka nan kaiki tte iu no wa, kekkou kansoka sarete tari, yaranai tte iu hito mo ne, ima no jidai aru to omou n desu yo ne.
For example, I think in this day and age, celebrations like the first Bon festival or anniversaries of a person's death have been simplified considerably, and some people don't even celebrate them at all.
ใฃใฆใใใฎใใใฃใฑใใไผ็ตฑๆๅใฃใฆๆฅใซๆฅใซ่ใใฆใใใใใชใใงใใใ
tte iu no mo yappari, dentou bunka tte hi ni hi ni usurete iku ja nai desu ka.
is also Traditional culture is fading with each passing day.
็งใฏๅคงๅ็ใจใใใๅคง็ฐ่ใ...ใ
watashi wa ooita ken to iu, ootasha ga....
I'm from Oita Prefecture, a very rural area.
ๅคง็ฐ่ใใใฃใใใใใใฃใใใๅใใใๅฎถใซๆฅใใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใใใฃใใๆฅๅธธ็ใ
ootasha ga atta kara, kekkou obousan ga ie ni kuru tte iu no wa, kekkou nichijouteki.
Because we lived in the countryside, it was quite common for Buddhist monks to come to our house.
ๆฏๅนดๅคใซใชใใจใๅฟ ใใๅใใใใใฃใฆใใฆใ
maitoshi natsu ni naru to, kanarazu obousan ga yatte kite,
Every summer, the monks would come and
ๅฎถใงใ็ตใ่ชญใใงใใใฆใ
ie de okyou o yonde kurete,
She read sutras for me at home,
ๆญฃๅบงใ30ๅใใใใใชใใใใใชใใฆใใ่ถณ็ใใชใใใฟใใใชใฎใใๆฏๅนดใฎๅคใฎ่กไบใ ใฃใใใงใใใฉใ
seiza o 30 fun kurai shinakya ikenakute, " ashi itai naa " mitai na no ga, maitoshi no natsu no gyouji datta n desu kedo.
We had to sit in seiza position for about 30 minutes, and I'd be like, "My feet hurt." That was an annual summer event.
ๆฑไบฌใซใใใจใญใใชใใชใใใใใใใจใฏๅฐใชใใชใฃใฆใใใใชใจๆใใฆใใใพใใ
toukyou ni iru to ne, nakanaka sou iu koto wa sukunaku natte iru ka na to kanjite orimasu.
When you're in Tokyo, it's hard to find something like that. I feel like the number of such cases is decreasing.
ๅฎถใฎไธญใซไปๅฃใใใไบบใใใปใผ่ฆใใใจใชใใงใใญใใๅฎถใฎไธญใซไปๅฃใใใไบบใฃใฆใๆฑไบฌใงใ
ie no naka ni butsudan ga aru hito mo, hobo mita koto nai desu ne. ie no naka ni butsudan ga aru hito tte, toukyou de.
I've almost never seen anyone who has a Buddhist altar in their home. In Tokyo, there are many people who have a Buddhist altar in their home.
ๅคใๅฎถใจใใ ใฃใใใญใใใใจๆใใใงใใใใฉใใ
furui ie to ka dattara ne, aru to omou n desu keredo mo.
I think if it's an old house, it might be possible.
ใจใใๆใใงใญใไฝใ่ณชๅใจใใใใฃใใใใใฒใณใกใณใใงๆใใฆใใ ใใใ
to iu kanji de ne, nan ka shitsumon to ka ga attara, zehi komento de oshiete kudasai.
So, if you have any questions, Please let us know in the comments.
็งใ็งใซใฏใใฐใใกใใใฎ17ๅๅฟใฎๆณไบใใใฃใฆใ
watashi mo aki ni wa obaachan no 17 kaiki no houji ga atte,
I also have a memorial service for my grandmother in the fall for the 17th anniversary of her death.
ใใถใใใใใใใใกใฎใใใใกใใใฎโฆใพใ ใใช๏ผ
tabun sorosoro, uchi no ojiichan no... mada ka na?
Maybe it's about time for my grandpa's...is it time yet?
7ๅๅฟใจใใใใใ3ๅๅฟใฏใญใ็ตใใฃใใฐใฃใใใ ใใใๆฌก7ๅๅฟใใใถใๅคงๅใงใใใญใ
7 kaiki to ka ga aru. 3 kaiki wa ne, owatta bakkari da kara, tsugi 7 kaiki ga tabun daibu de aru ne.
There are 7th anniversaries and so on. The 3rd anniversary just ended, The next seventh anniversary will probably be in Oita.
ใใฎๆใซใฏ่ชๅใๅคงๅใซๅผใฃ่ถใใฆใใใใชใจๆใใพใใญใ
sono toki ni wa jibun mo daibu ni hikkoshite itai na to omoimasu ne.
By that time, I'd like to have moved to Oita too.
ใงใใใ่ชๅใๅคงๅใซไฝใใงใใใใใใถใใใกใใใกใๆไผใใใใใจๆใใพใใญใใใใใชใใจใ
de, moshi jibun ga ooita ni sunde itara, tabun mechamecha tetsudawasareru to omoimasu ne, ironna koto.
So, if I lived in Oita, I'm sure I'd be asked to help out a ton, with all sorts of things.
ใพใใงใใใชใใๅๅผทใจใใใใ่ฆใใฆใใใๆนใใใๆฐใใใใฎใงใ
maa de mo, nan ka benkyou to iu ka, oboete oita hou ga ii ki ga suru no de,
Well, it was like studying, I think itโs better to remember that,
ใใใใๆ้ ใจใๆบๅใจใใไผ็ตฑ็ใช้จๅใงใญใ
sou iu tejun to ka junbi to ka, dentouteki na bubun de ne.
Those sorts of procedures and preparations and the traditional aspects.
ใใๆใใพใใ31ๆญณใ
sou kanjimasu. 31 sai.
I feel that way. I'm 31 years old.
ใฏใใใจใใใใจใงไปๆฅใฏใๆฅๆฌใฎๆญปๅพใฎๆๅใไพ้คใฎใใๆนใซใคใใฆใงใใใ
hai, to iu koto de kyou wa, nihon no shigo no bunka, kuyou no yarikata ni tsuite deshita.
Okay, so today, It was about Japanese culture after death and how memorial services are performed.
ไปๆฅ่ฉฑใใ่ฉฑใใพใใใฉใณในใฏใชใใใไฝใใพใใฎใงใ็งใฎใฆใงใใตใคใใใใงใใฏใใฆใฟใฆใใ ใใใ
kyou hanashita hanashi, mata toran sukuriputo o tsukurimasu no de, watashi no webusaito o chekku shite mite kudasai.
I'll make a transcript of what I said today, so please check out my website.
ใใจใInstagramใYouTubeใใใกใใฎใใฉใญใผใใ้กใใใใใพใใ
ato, Instagram, YouTube, kochira no foroo mo onegai itashimasu.
Also, Instagram, YouTube, Please follow me here too.
ใใจใSunny Side Japaneseใฎใใใใญใฃในใใใใใพใใ
ato, Sunny Side Japanese no poddo kyasuto ga arimasu.
Also, there's the Sunny Side Japanese podcast.
ๅ ็ใใกใใใคใ2ไบบใงไผ่ฉฑใใๅฝขๅผใซใชใฃใฆใใใฎใงใ
senseitachi, itsu mo 2 nin de kaiwa suru keishiki ni natte iru no de,
The teachers, because we always have conversations in pairs,
ใใฃใจ่ช็ถใชๆฅๆฌ่ชใ่ใใใจๆใใพใใฎใงใใใฒใใใใใงใใ
motto shizen na nihon go ga kikeru to omoimasu no de, zehi osusume desu.
I think you'll hear more natural Japanese, so I definitely recommend it.
YouTubeใใฃใณใใซใ้่จญใใพใใใฎใงใใใฒใใฉใญใผใ้กใใใใใพใใ
YouTube channeru mo kaisetsu shimashita no de, zehi foroo onegai itashimasu.
We have also opened a YouTube channel, Please follow us.
YouTubeใใฃใณใใซใงใฏใใใใใใกใใฃใจใใใชใใใฎใใใใญใฃในใใใขใใใใฆใใใใจๆใใฎใงใ
YouTube channeru de wa, kore kara chotto bideo ari no poddo kyasuto o appu shite ikou to omou no de,
On our YouTube channel, I'm thinking of uploading a podcast with video,
ใใใใใ้กใใใใใพใใ
yoroshiku onegai itashimasu.
Thank you very much.
ใใจใฏใSunny Side Japaneseใงใใญใ
ato wa, Sunny Side Japanese desu ne.
Next up is Sunny Side Japanese.
ใใกใใฏๆฐใใใกใณใใผๅ้ไธญใงใใ
kochira wa atarashii menbaa boshuuchuu desu.
We are currently recruiting new members.
ไธไบบใงๆฅๆฌ่ชๅๅผทใใฆใใฆ
hitori de nihon go benkyou shite ite
Studying Japanese alone
ใกใใฃใจใขใใใผใทใงใณใไธใใฃใฆใใใจใ
chotto mochibeeshon ga sagatte iru to ka
Maybe you're feeling a bit low on motivation?
ไปฒ้ใๆฌฒใใใจใ
nakama ga hoshii to ka
I want friends
ไผ่ฉฑไธๆใซใชใใใใจใ
kaiwa jouzu ni naritai to ka
Want to become a better conversationalist?
ใใใใไบบใใกใSunny Sideใใดใฃใใใงใใ
sou iu hitotachi, Sunny Side ga pittari desu.
Those people, Sunny Side is perfect for you.
ใใใใใใใจใซใใกใณใใผใๆฅใซๆฅใซๅขใใฆใใฃใฆ
arigatai koto ni, menbaa mo hi ni hi ni fuete itte
Thankfully, the number of members is increasing day by day.
ใใฃใใ็ใไธใใฃใฆใใฆใ
kekkou moriagatte ite,
It was pretty exciting.
ใฟใใชๆฌๅฝใซๅ้ใฟใใใชๆใใง
minna hontou ni tomodachi mitai na kanji de
Everyone was like a real friend.
ใใใใใๆใใงใใฎใงใ
sugoi ii kanji desu no de,
It's a really good feeling,
่ชๅใง่จใใฎใใชใใ ใใฉใ
jibun de iu no mo nan da kedo.
I hate to say it myself.
ใใฒใใฒใใฉใคใขใซใใๅงใใฆใฟใฆใใ ใใใ
zehi zehi toraiaru kara hajimete mite kudasai.
Please give the trial a try.
8ๆใใใงใใญใใใฎSunny Sideใฎใกใใฃใจ็นๅฅใใฉใณใจใใฆใ
8 gatsu kara desu ne, sono Sunny Side no chotto tokubetsu puran to shite,
Starting in August, we will have a special plan for Sunny Side.
15ๆฅใ ใใฎใ่ฉฆใใใฉใณใฟใใใชใใฎใไฝใไบๅฎใงใใ
15 ka dake no otameshi puran mitai na mono o tsukuru yotei desu.
We're planning to create something like a 15-day trial plan.
ใกใใฃใจ่ฉฆใใฆใฟใใใใ ใใฉใ1ๅใฎใใฉใคใขใซใฏใฉในใใใชใใฆใ
chotto tameshite mitai n da kedo, 1 kai no toraiaru kurasu ja nakute,
I just want to try it out. Not just one trial class,
ๅฎ้ใซใกใณใใผใฎไบบใจใใฆDiscordใซๅ ฅใฃใฆใฟใใใจใใใกใณใใผใคใใณใๅๅ ใใใใจใใ
jissai ni menbaa no hito to shite Discord ni haitte mi tari to ka, menbaa ibento sanka shi tari to ka,
Actually joining Discord as a member, Participating in member events,
้จๆดปใซๅๅ ใใใใใฟใใใชใฎใใงใใใฃใฆใใใใฉใณใใกใใฃใจไฝใใพใใฎใงใ
bukatsu ni sanka shi tari, mitai na no ga dekiru tte iu puran o chotto tsukurimasu no de,
Plans for students to join clubs and things like that I'll make some,
8ๆใป9ๆ้ๅฎใซใชใใพใใฎใงใ
8 gatsu 9 gatsu gentei ni narimasu no de,
This is only available in August and September,
่ๅณใใๆนใใใฒใใงใใฏใใฆใฟใฆใใ ใใใ
kyoumi aru kata, zehi chekku shite mite kudasai.
If you're interested, please check it out.
ใใจใชใใ ใใใญใ
ato na n darou ne.
I wonder what else there is.
Patreonใใใกใใฎใกใณใใผใๅ้ใใฆใใใพใใ
Patreon, kochira no menbaa mo boshuu shite orimasu.
I am also recruiting members for Patreon.
ใฏใใPatreonใงใฏใญใ่ฟฝๅ ใณใณใใณใใใใใใใใพใใฎใงใ
hai, Patreon de wa ne, tsuika kontentsu iroiro arimasu no de,
Yes, there is a lot of additional content on Patreon,
ใใฃใจๆฅๆฌ่ชใๅๅผทใใใๆนใ
motto nihon go o benkyou shitai kata,
If you want to learn more about Japanese,
ใใใฆใHaru no Nihongoใๅฟๆดใใใใ๏ผใใจใใๆนใใญใ
soshite " Haru no Nihongo o ouen shitai yo! " to iu kata mo ne,
And there are also people who say, "I want to support Haru no Nihongo!"
ใใฒPatreonใซๅๅ ใใฆใฟใฆใใ ใใใ
zehi Patreon ni sanka shite mite kudasai.
Please join us on Patreon.
ใฏใใไปฅไธใงใใ
hai, ijou desu.
Yes, that's all.
ใใใชๆใใงใใญใ
sonna kanji desu ne.
That's about it.
็นใซ่ฉฑใใใจใชใใงใใ
tokuni hanasu koto nai desu.
There's nothing in particular to talk about.
ไปๆฅใฏใใใ
kyou wa mou.
Enough for today.
ใชใฎใง็ตใใใซใใใใจๆใใพใใ
na no de owari ni shitai to omoimasu.
So I think I'll wrap it up here.
ใฏใใใใใงใฏใพใๆฌกๅใ
hai, sore de wa mata jikai.
Okay, see you next time.
ใใใใชใใ๏ผ
sayounara~!
Goodbye!
Video and Japanese captions: Haru no Nihongo on YouTube. English: the channel's own captions.
Words at N1
- ใใto go, to proceedN1
- ็ตใใto finish, to closeN1
- ๆดปใใto arrange (flowers)N1
- ๅจๆcycle, periodN1
- ็ดใimmediately, soon, easily, right (near), honest, uprightN1
- ๆฅตๆฅฝparadiseN1
- ็ฐก็ด simplicity, plainN1
- ใใฃใณใใซa channelN1
- ่ณbrainN1
- ใถๆmonths, counter for monthsN1
- ่ท้ขdistance, rangeN1
- ไธๅธsuperior authorities, bossN1
- ็ใไธญmiddle, centre, mid-wayN1
- ไฟก่ believer, adherent, devotee, followerN1
- ๅedge (of a sword)N1
- ๆฒ้ณดshriek, screamN1
- ่ซธvarious, many, severalN1
- ่กline, row, verseN1
- ๆฑpillar, postN1
- ๅฐ็จexclusive use, personal useN1
- ๅฑใใto recite, to chant, to call uponN1
- ไธ้ฃa series, a chain, a ream (of paper)N1
- ๅฐ็hellN1
- ่ฏใgoodN1
- ๆ ใใ ใใbusy, hurried, confused, flurriedN1
- ใณใกใณใcommentN1
- ๆ้ process, procedure, protocolN1
- ใขใใupN1
- ็ใไธใใto rouse, to swell, to riseN1
- ้ๅฎlimit, restrictionN1




